Where We Are Now

When I wrote my last post I thought that I’d follow it up with telling about how much it hurt Amanda to be abandoned by her bio dad but the more I thought about it the more I realized that it’s not really my story to tell. Only Amanda really knows what that’s like. I know the frustration from a mother’s perspective of being unable to really get to the heart of what was wrong. But I think that today, what I really want to show you is where we are now. Because where we are now is a beautiful picture of God’s amazing faithfulness and love. He guided us through all the rough waters, met us when we really didn’t know what to do and has led Amanda to a place of abundance.

This is my girl now in college and she’s half of the hosting team for her college TV show. Her confidence completely amazes me and I’ve always admired her ability to completely light up a stage. (And you can watch her on REVtv.com, check the listings for RAW TV show times)

This past September all of the Buttons plus Amanda’s boyfriend, Daniel, met at my parent’s house in Birmingham so he could, well, meet the parents.

Seriously, how cute are they?

We spent part of an afternoon during that really short trip at the Birmingham Botanical Gardens (it’s completely gorgeous and completely free btw).

We were kind of silly…at least Amanda was.

And we were also fascinated with all manner of tiny critters…

We talked and laughed and got to know Daniel a bit.

We liked him a lot.

My point in all of this is to give you a snapshot into our life now. We’ve had many obstacles to overcome but none of those obstacles were too difficult for God. When I look back on everything and see how bizarre and extreme it all was and look at things now it almost seems like a fairy tale but really it’s a miracle.

And now, I’ll leave you with this. Your situation is not too big for God to handle. You have not fallen so far, your loved ones have not fallen so far, your circumstances are not too difficult for God to guide you through them. Pray, ask for the miraculous, ask for wisdom, ask for God to speak to you in a way that you can hear him and understand what he’s saying, then obey.

“But the wisdom from above is first of all pure.

It is also peace loving,

gentle at all times,

and willing to yield to others.

It is full of mercy and good deeds. It shows no favoritism and is always sincere.” James 3:17

Blessings,

Amy

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A Mini Makeover

When Amanda got home from college a few weeks ago I was so excited! We hadn’t seen her in more than two months which is the longest I’ve ever gone without seeing her in her whole life- and I don’t really like it. We prepared for her arrival by moving Chloe and Halle back into the same room and gave Amanda her old room back. But I wasn’t prepared for how.much.stuff. she has. I mean, she’s the host of RAW TV and she has the shoes to prove it! This little rancher is just not able to hold the amount of things that 3 adults and 2 kids have. So we purged. And I was a bit of a wreck. I have handled the lack of space pretty well and when confronted with the question (always from Travis), “Where are we going to put it?” my answer is always, “I’ll find a place.” And I have to say that I’m pretty good at it. Now, the place I find for said item might drive Travis crazy and he might move it somewhere else (ahem) but a place is always found.

Except this time. Apparently I’m only good at finding spots for one thing at a time. Like the drink dispenser I *had* to have for Mother’s Day.

When I’m trying to find a space for just one thing it’s easy. At the very worst I can just get rid of something that I’m not using anymore. This time though we had a truck load of things to find a spot for. Plus we couldn’t continue to use one dresser for Chloe and Halle. That was possible when we first moved in and Chloe was 5 and Halle wasn’t quite 2 yet. They’ve gotten bigger and so have their clothes so their room was just awful. Trav’s solution was to give Chloe the dresser he’d been using which made her very, very happy. Me? Not so much. It meant that Trav’s clothes were in piles and shoved in plastic bins. That was the time that I broke down and sobbed on his shoulder…at 1 am.

We’d put off making any type of furniture purchase because we couldn’t really agree on what we wanted. We finally decided to repurpose the armoire that had been housing the TV in the living room and use it in our room for Trav’s clothes- for a couple of reasons. First of all, it wasn’t meant to be a TV cabinet so the doors didn’t retract in and you couldn’t see the TV from some seating spots in the living room. In fact, we’d taken the doors off at Thanksgiving when Shane and Angie and the kids stayed with us and never put them back because it was easier to watch TV. Secondly, the armoire matches the rest of our bedroom furniture and while I don’t like the finish, it at least brings some cohesiveness to the bedroom. It also gave Travis a lot more space for his clothes than he had originally.

Then each of us had to give a little. I wanted a fancy piece of furniture that would hold up for the long haul so we wouldn’t be looking for another media cabinet in a couple of years. Travis wanted something more modern that would eventually hold a flat screen (we don’t have one now). After I measured the armoire and how it fit in the room I realized that what we really needed would be less than 50 inches wide and put my furniture piece out of the running. The one Travis wanted didn’t have enough storage and I didn’t want to have to store the metal bracket that came with it until we get a flat screen. So we headed off to Target to see if there was something suitable that would also not break the bank.

First we saw a traditional-ish console with two drawers and an espresso finish.

I’m typically a fan of the espresso finish but since we have a chocolate brown sofa, a brown dog crate, a brown-ish chair, and the walls are beige I just wasn’t feelin’ it. The drawers didn’t seem strong enough to store much of anything and we had to have room for all of this…

Yes, we still have VHS tapes. Why? It’s mostly because if I got rid of those tapes it would be like throwing Amanda’s childhood in the trash can. I’m weirdly sentimental like that. Plus some of them are really good movies that I like having and don’t want to replace right now. Swiss Family Robinson, Alice in Wonderland (Disney), Toy Story…you get the idea.

The next one was too black…

These were too black and too much glass (we didn’t want any glass because of the kids and Daisy)…

Too traditional…

This little cabinet was fabulous though and I’d love to find a place for it… it’s not for a TV though. Bummer.

Finally we chose this…it’s the only one I didn’t get a picture of (hangs head in shame).

We chose it because we already have a mission style side table in the living room so the finishes look nice together plus it has sliding doors instead of drawers and the storage space is larger. There’s no glass and it will accommodate a flat screen in the future.

I do have pictures of the assembly process though.

Aren’t they cute?

Travis is calling out the parts list to Chloe who keeps track of all of the nuts, bolts, doodads, thingamajigs, and whatsits. The assembly was pretty easy and I was happy that a lot of the cabinet is actually wood rather than completely particle board. Not bad for $139.

Stay tuned because next we paint…